Monday, October 31, 2005
A Perfect Weekend - Halloween and all
FRIDAY: Good meals/Good Friends
As it would turn out, this weekend was fun, impromptu and absolutely perfect. XT and Chris came over for dinner Friday evening. It was our first time meeting him and I could tell XT was with someone who abosolutely adored her. I can't tell you how happy I was for both of them. I haven't seen that soft side of her in a long time, and it made her all the more beautiful. Chris cooked us his special tri tip steaks and we were enamored immediately, since most of my friends know what a meat eater I am. He's down to earth, gave XT plenty of space but with lots of attention, you could tell he was very much in love with her. The half of Shelaine as well as Sapna joined. It was a great evening of old friends, new friends and a great meal.
Saturday: Partying it up!
Thank goodness we had the house to ourselves. Both roommates were gone and we took much luxury in lounging in the living room in our PJ's and watching tv and napping all day. We finally got our lazy selves off the couch at 7pm to take a shower and get ready for the evening.. only b/c AG's workmates were coming over for drinks at 9pm. They are an abosolutely lovely couple, very much in love, even after 4 years of marriage. I love that. After they left, we took our time getting ready to head out to Opel's Freaknight Halloween party at Paradies Lounge... and to meet up with our lost loves, Sashilya...and Michelle. The music varied, but at one point DJ Lorin was playing... I've forgotten how much I enjoy his music.
I hadn't realized what a club scene 11th and Folsom is. All along those blocks - several clubs all lined up in a row, whatever you wanted. People were out in all forms of dress and undress. It was like being on a clean street of BM - it was fantastic! I love it when people get freaky and wear things that reveal a little bit of their fantasies, and who they are or want to be. People think Halloween is a time they can hide behind costumes and masks, and yet, that's the one time I get to see normal people unmask themselves, it's like being able to look at piece of their soul, and it's so refreshing.
Margo and Maddick met us quickly inside - they were so cute and adorable, him in his Elvis outfit complete with 2 baggies of prescription pills and Margo in her little cat outfit. Much better done than most cat outfits I've seen, probably because of the fur lined paws... nice touch. I like them both a lot, they are non-invasive, super sweet and really chill.
And while I was lounging on a beautiful couch, who should come up behind me? none other than 1 crazy russian guy we met in Vietnam, complete in costume with his crazy russian fur hat and mustache. Perfect! We met his other half later, the dildo fairy - completely vibrating of course. Sashilya, what can I say, the more we hang out with them - the more we love them. They are fun to party with, yet responsible, and deeply spiritual and intellectual. They have the same philosophy and live their lives balancing the parting, being in love with each other, and being responsible that both AG and I adhere to - and there is a deep sense of connection with them. I adore them both individually, and yet, they are more than the sum of their parts when together. A rare find indeed. Ilya and I connected in Thailand with our love of mentos, and we are finding out every time we hang out, that we are definitly soul brothers. I mean the guy loves Salami too... Sasha is grounded, and deep and and quiet talks with her are intense and rejuvenating.
Sunday: lounging mood
We hung out until the club shut down at 4am (really 5am with the extra hour), drove everyone back to our place and hung out until 6am. We never did make it out to brunch with Sashilya, but we are hoping to see them for Xmas. Yesterday was a blur of napping and snacking. I did insist on going for a walk with the pups to get some fresh air. It felt good to move around and participate with the outside world. Our house is a mess from much partying and lounging, but I haven't felt this replenished spiritually in awhile......
As it would turn out, this weekend was fun, impromptu and absolutely perfect. XT and Chris came over for dinner Friday evening. It was our first time meeting him and I could tell XT was with someone who abosolutely adored her. I can't tell you how happy I was for both of them. I haven't seen that soft side of her in a long time, and it made her all the more beautiful. Chris cooked us his special tri tip steaks and we were enamored immediately, since most of my friends know what a meat eater I am. He's down to earth, gave XT plenty of space but with lots of attention, you could tell he was very much in love with her. The half of Shelaine as well as Sapna joined. It was a great evening of old friends, new friends and a great meal.
Saturday: Partying it up!
Thank goodness we had the house to ourselves. Both roommates were gone and we took much luxury in lounging in the living room in our PJ's and watching tv and napping all day. We finally got our lazy selves off the couch at 7pm to take a shower and get ready for the evening.. only b/c AG's workmates were coming over for drinks at 9pm. They are an abosolutely lovely couple, very much in love, even after 4 years of marriage. I love that. After they left, we took our time getting ready to head out to Opel's Freaknight Halloween party at Paradies Lounge... and to meet up with our lost loves, Sashilya...and Michelle. The music varied, but at one point DJ Lorin was playing... I've forgotten how much I enjoy his music.
I hadn't realized what a club scene 11th and Folsom is. All along those blocks - several clubs all lined up in a row, whatever you wanted. People were out in all forms of dress and undress. It was like being on a clean street of BM - it was fantastic! I love it when people get freaky and wear things that reveal a little bit of their fantasies, and who they are or want to be. People think Halloween is a time they can hide behind costumes and masks, and yet, that's the one time I get to see normal people unmask themselves, it's like being able to look at piece of their soul, and it's so refreshing.
Margo and Maddick met us quickly inside - they were so cute and adorable, him in his Elvis outfit complete with 2 baggies of prescription pills and Margo in her little cat outfit. Much better done than most cat outfits I've seen, probably because of the fur lined paws... nice touch. I like them both a lot, they are non-invasive, super sweet and really chill.
And while I was lounging on a beautiful couch, who should come up behind me? none other than 1 crazy russian guy we met in Vietnam, complete in costume with his crazy russian fur hat and mustache. Perfect! We met his other half later, the dildo fairy - completely vibrating of course. Sashilya, what can I say, the more we hang out with them - the more we love them. They are fun to party with, yet responsible, and deeply spiritual and intellectual. They have the same philosophy and live their lives balancing the parting, being in love with each other, and being responsible that both AG and I adhere to - and there is a deep sense of connection with them. I adore them both individually, and yet, they are more than the sum of their parts when together. A rare find indeed. Ilya and I connected in Thailand with our love of mentos, and we are finding out every time we hang out, that we are definitly soul brothers. I mean the guy loves Salami too... Sasha is grounded, and deep and and quiet talks with her are intense and rejuvenating.
Sunday: lounging mood
We hung out until the club shut down at 4am (really 5am with the extra hour), drove everyone back to our place and hung out until 6am. We never did make it out to brunch with Sashilya, but we are hoping to see them for Xmas. Yesterday was a blur of napping and snacking. I did insist on going for a walk with the pups to get some fresh air. It felt good to move around and participate with the outside world. Our house is a mess from much partying and lounging, but I haven't felt this replenished spiritually in awhile......
Friday, October 28, 2005
Wednesday, October 26, 2005
Universal flow highway? Luck? Hard Work? Karma?
The weather has changed abruptly in the last two days and the first full rain of the season fell this morning around 6am. I only know that bc my cute little puppies woke me up 3 times last night to go to the bathroom. Finally, at 6am, I took their kennel and put it outside leaving the door open for convenience. And when big fat raindrops began splashing on our patio, I woke up to make sure the puppies were warm and dry before snuggling back into my comfortable bed next to AG.
Which got me thinking today about how lucky I am. I know life is a constant struggle, especially to find that special someone to snuggle with at night. I have many friends who are in relationships, all in various stages. One particular friend, who I thought surely had it figured out, only to find out differently. Makes me wonder, how and why I'm so lucky? Is it Karma, luck? At one point in time, I believed absolutely that we meet that special person when we've learned the lessons we've needed to, which then allows us to see the entrance onto that highway. I'm not so certain about that anymore. I've met people who are with their karmic/soul partner (my assumption of course) and they still have a lot of work left. And I have friends who have traversed the difficult path of self-understanding and change and should be on that highway. Doesn't make as much sense.
I'm rambling about this only because I'm feeling so guilty about having it so good. That's a huge rock that I carry about everything. But it's more apparent when my friends are going through difficult times. I know I can't make it better for them and that this lesson, like any lesson - is for them to go through and to learn from... but if only....
Which got me thinking today about how lucky I am. I know life is a constant struggle, especially to find that special someone to snuggle with at night. I have many friends who are in relationships, all in various stages. One particular friend, who I thought surely had it figured out, only to find out differently. Makes me wonder, how and why I'm so lucky? Is it Karma, luck? At one point in time, I believed absolutely that we meet that special person when we've learned the lessons we've needed to, which then allows us to see the entrance onto that highway. I'm not so certain about that anymore. I've met people who are with their karmic/soul partner (my assumption of course) and they still have a lot of work left. And I have friends who have traversed the difficult path of self-understanding and change and should be on that highway. Doesn't make as much sense.
I'm rambling about this only because I'm feeling so guilty about having it so good. That's a huge rock that I carry about everything. But it's more apparent when my friends are going through difficult times. I know I can't make it better for them and that this lesson, like any lesson - is for them to go through and to learn from... but if only....
Monday, October 24, 2005
San Diego Baby
AG and I drove to SD Friday afternoon. Got into SD around 1am... Met up with my brother and Jess for brunch, then off to the rehearsal dinner in Carlsbad. I was in SD over a year ago when we drove Jess down in April to help her move into her new pad. I really didn't like SD that much then, and nothing has really changed my mind about it this time either. Weather is great usually, and I love the landscape - but the people.... I suppose there are worse places to live.
Gabrielle and Lourna's wedding was a hoot, we had a little assistance of coure. I can't imagine how dreary it could have been without. But they are sweet people, and I enjoyed meeting Jed (the Groom's brother), his friend Alexis, and Lourna. It was much different than Al's (or any of my friend's) wedding where so many friends and family participated and so much love shown. Gabrielle's wedding seemed a little bereft in the friends department even though there was a huge support shown in the family department.
AG and I got a lot of time in together and had lots of wonderful talks - which made the entire trip worth it by itself. And even though my life is mundane sometimes, it sure felt nice to sleep in my own bed, and enjoy the comforts and luxury of my own house.
Gabrielle and Lourna's wedding was a hoot, we had a little assistance of coure. I can't imagine how dreary it could have been without. But they are sweet people, and I enjoyed meeting Jed (the Groom's brother), his friend Alexis, and Lourna. It was much different than Al's (or any of my friend's) wedding where so many friends and family participated and so much love shown. Gabrielle's wedding seemed a little bereft in the friends department even though there was a huge support shown in the family department.
AG and I got a lot of time in together and had lots of wonderful talks - which made the entire trip worth it by itself. And even though my life is mundane sometimes, it sure felt nice to sleep in my own bed, and enjoy the comforts and luxury of my own house.
Tuesday, October 18, 2005
Finally Catching up
Well, it's been over a month and a half since BM, and I'm finally almost caught up. The house is under control, and I'm just beginning to see the end of many projects at work. It's a great feeling of satisfaction and content. Not only because I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, but because I kicked ass getting there. Even the puppies are getting into a rhythm.
What's next on my agenda now that I'm not using all of my time to stomp out fires? Stil lots of soul searching to do and preparing for my next career move. Tramster's wedding is next month and the holidays are here already. Life is pretty damn good and I'm invigorated.
What's next on my agenda now that I'm not using all of my time to stomp out fires? Stil lots of soul searching to do and preparing for my next career move. Tramster's wedding is next month and the holidays are here already. Life is pretty damn good and I'm invigorated.
Monday, October 17, 2005
Friday, October 14, 2005
The Gang goes to the Supper Club
A couple of weeks ago, the Gang went to the Supper Club www.supperclub.nl, owned by ShElaine's friends and company. For $60 - you get a 5 course prefixed meal and lively entertainment, some of which are not hired by the Restaurant. We had ourselves a merry old time. What a better way to infuse good food, good music (live dj - with an open dj booth in the middle of the restaurant), with friends, all in bed!
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